Posts Tagged ‘negative emotions’
Self Development Tip #1 – Forgiveness is the way to move forward
“Always forgive your enemies, nothing annoys them so much” Oscar Wilde
This is a great quote and a fantastic concept. Forgiveness doesn’t sound easy, especially if you feel you have been unnecessarily hurt or wronged. However, it is the ONLY way to inner peace. If you cannot forgive, you cannot let go of the negative emotions inside you. The pain will eventually rot from the inside out and will affect every area of your life.
Why let someone else’s actions hurt you for any longer than they already have?
Think of this way, if someone hurt you, say 5 years ago – do you think that they have sat and wept for the past 5 years about how they wronged you? It’s very unlikely, or they would have made an effort to gain your forgiveness. Let go of the past or the past will destroy YOU.
In my early 20′s, I used to think of ‘forgiveness’ as a religious idea. Something that people involved in a religion would do for us ‘sinners’. When actually forgiveness isn’t about the other person – it’s not about THEM being forgiven, it’s about YOU being able to let go. This is the point of forgiveness. It doesn’t mean that you think they are an ok person, or that you believe that they’ve changed or that they would never repeat their actions. All it means is that you are willing to let go of your negative energy connected to that person or event.
The more severe the wrongdoing, the more important it is for you to forgive and let go. If you truly believe that you are unable to let go of the past, I highly recommend using one of the energy healing techniques such as EFT (tapping), Emotrance, TAT or ZPoint. It will make a huge difference to your life, once you can let go of the trapped negative energy.
Do it now before it is too late. Negative energy will eventually manifest itself as severe issues such as depression, anxiety, a phobia or PTSD and even physical illness.
This person has already destroyed your past – are you going to let them hurt your future? The choice is yours.
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About the Author:
Mel Trudgett is a self development coach and the owner of Healing That Feeling.
Her unique programme, Stress to Success in 7 Steps, has helped people from all over the world to easily overcome their stress, phobias, anger, depression, trauma, limiting beliefs and helped them to make big changes in their lives.
Visit http://www.healingthatfeeling.com to receive a free 7 day mini course which will show you to easily and holistically resolve YOUR problem issues.
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You Are More of a Risk Taker Than You Think
If I asked a number of people why they don’t go after their dreams of financial independence most would tell me they are afraid of taking the risk. Some may not even realize this is an underlying fear yet it is incredibly common especially among people who are set in their ways. They loathe their current working environment and desire an escape from the shackles of their professional careers, yet they don’t believe they have what it takes to start a home based business. Think again!
Are you married? Do you have children? Did you go to school or get a new car? I know these events sound like commonplace but in actuality each involves an element of risk. When you get married, for instance, nothing is guaranteed. You do not know how the relationship will turn out, what struggles you will face or what direction it will take. But people are getting married by the millions every single day! You are a risk taker by nature and don’t even know it. You take a risk every time you get behind the driver’s seat or fly on a plane. In life, nothing is guaranteed and most decisions involve little if not a lot of risk.
Consider all of the decisions you made in your lifetime. If you really take a good look at your life, you will realize you have what it takes to start something new. If you believe you can do something, even if it is a small amount, you will possess the impetus to go after it. Yes, you will be afraid, but who isn’t? I left a long and prosperous career as a chiropractor to pursue my internet business. Yes, the decision paid off immensely but I had some doubts and fears in the beginning. My dissatisfaction with where I was prompted me to continue in spite of negative emotions.
If you are sick and tired of the “status quo” lifestyle of the daily grind and know something better exists, now is the time to make it happen! Regardless of your status and income level in your profession, you can still take action and never look back. What is it you really want? If you are searching for freedom from the daily grind, I suggest you start focusing on what you need to do and take the next step. Everyone makes mistakes and you will too, but you will never change your current existence if you don’t take any chances.
“Do you want to be safe and good, or do you want to take a chance and be great?”— Jimmy Johnson
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About the Author:
Dr. Jon Grenillo is a successful doctor, entrepreneur, and marketing consultant. He assists serious entrepreneurs in building a profitable online business with multiple incomes streams. Jon and his team have assisted hundreds of people in generating profits that exceed $250K or more in their first year. For more information and to contact Jon, visit: http://www.jongrenillo.com