Posts Tagged ‘heart and mind’
Commitment about Yourself
The one thing we never want to be compromised is our word or an obligation we make. Why is a person’s word or promise so important to be fulfilled? If someone fails to uphold his or her commitment to us, we are devastated and feel betrayed. We never consider the obstacles, which could have hindered them or prevented their completing that promise. We just automatically brand them as a liar and loss all faith and trust in them.
Commitment it is not only of great value to others but it should also be as important when I make it to me. I esteem it as the very basis for the integrity within me. I believe if you can’t trust the truthfulness of my words then how can you possibly trust anything about me? I feel my word is as binding as my signature.
The thing that disappoints and angers me is my failure to be as committed to keeping my promises to myself, as I am to others. I make decisions to do and accomplish things in my heart and mind but those are the first ones to be unfulfilled. I put other people’s desires and other things first and then fail to achieve my own objectives. I justify it by telling myself I can do it later, but later never comes. I procrastinate and say I will accomplish it after the fact, but the time or resources may no longer be available. I always have an excuse but never take the required action.
We should be dedicated to being as truthful to ourselves as we are to others and remember those promises are as binding as well. Considering our needs to be as valuable as those we associate with, will release the anxiety we sometimes feel because we are ignoring ourselves.
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Are Your Powerful Thoughts Scaring You?
You probably already know that your powerful thoughts attract your experiences to you. But that is only one-half of the equation.
Powerful thoughts married to powerful emotions create a feeling in the body. This feeling is what is propelled out into the universe like a boomerang to bring you back a match to your feeling.
Most people don’t know it, but they do this every day. If you are not paying attention to your thoughts, emotions, and feelings, you may feel as if you are a victim of your thoughts. What you may not know is that you have the ability to change any thought or emotion that you have simply by redirecting your thoughts and/or your emotions.
Once you learn the techniques of changing your thoughts and/or your emotions to things that you desire and feel good about, the universe responds in kind. It doesn’t respond immediately, because there is a time delay, but it will respond.
What you are experiencing in this moment is a result of your thoughts, emotions, and feelings from the past. That is why it is imperative to get on track right now. One of the ways that you can entertain different thoughts is to ask yourself the question, what if…? What if you were able to do that thing you always wanted to do — what would it feel like?
Another way to think about this is to say, hmmm, I wonder… Gay Hendricks, a well known relationship coach says that when we say, hmmmm, the heart and mind begin to open up to new possibilities.
Once you understand how your powerful thoughts married to your powerful emotions affect every aspect of your life, you now can understand that you do have control. Once you realize that you have control, you also realize that you are no longer a victim.
Victims always suffer at the hands of others (seemingly so), but people who step up to the plate and take back control of their lives can be, do or have anything that they choose.
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The Secret To Creating A Prosperity Mindset
Do you think earning a higher income is hard? If you do, ask yourself why? Where did you get the idea that wealth was difficult to achieve? Who taught you that? Why do you choose to hang onto this believe? In what way does it serve you today? I know for myself, when I used to believe that wealth and success were beyond my reach that having that belief was strangely comforting. If wealth was out of my reach, then it wasn’t my fault that I was stuck in a job I didn’t like woefully under-earning and underachieving. The whole situation was beyond my control and that let me off the hook for taking responsibility for my life. Even as I complained about my situation I never had to really stop and look at what had brought me to that point.
Then I discovered the Law of Attraction and all of that flew out the window. I had to face the fact that it was ALL my doing AND my responsibility. After the initial shock wore off I realized that being responsible for myself and my results was actually amazingly freeing and empowering. I got to change all of the stuff I didn’t like about my life. I could DO something and BE who I was truly meant to be.
Now, not that many years later, I’m living a life that I truly love and embrace every day and feel an overarching sense of gratitude for every single bit of it. What am I trying to say to you with this story? The secret to creating a prosperity mindset is to simply take responsibility for your life and the results you have already achieved whether you are currently satisfied with them or not. Know that I don’t mean that you should blame yourself for these results. If you aren’t completely happy with your life know that it is within your power to change it and that although you created it you did the best you could at the time and taking even a single second to berate yourself for any negative results that occurred is counterproductive to your prosperity mindset.
Look inward and open your heart and mind to the possibility that you can earn more and that it can feel effortless. Maybe that hasn’t been your experience so far. So what? All it means is that you haven’t found the right inspiration, resources and support systems to make it happen for yourself yet. Once you decide that you can earn more and that it can be a joyful journey, you’ll attract everything you need to help you achieve your dreams.
Take a few minutes to look around at your life and identify some of the people/actions/things that support your prosperity and some of the people/actions/things that don’t. Make a list for each with up to 10 items on each list. Now, go out and have more of what supports your prosperity and weed out what doesn’t. Sound simple? It really is simple once you really “get” on an emotional (versus just an intellectual) level that you really can create the life you dream of living. That can be your life NOW.
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© 2010 Ruth Hegarty
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